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short letters from the adhd diary project. two minutes each, no advice. read one, read all eight, take what helps.

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what patients told me in the chair.for fifteen years people told me things in my chair they had never said out loud. not because i asked. because nothing happened after they said it.2 min readit's not an attention problem.adhd is not an attention problem. it's an interest regulation problem. you've been measuring yourself with a ruler built for a different brain.2 min readthe contract was fake.somewhere around third grade you signed something that said you may rest when you catch up. nobody else signed one. the terms were impossible.1 min read

the shelf

pull a book off the shelf

reframes.

the same week, the same pile, the same standoff, filed in a kinder category.

  • the parking lot at 1:25.there are two time zones for brains like ours: now, and not-now. so you are either hours early or blindsided into late. same brain, same missing gauge.2 min read

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